When something unexpected or unwanted happens, we can spend our time and energy:
(1) looking for who to blame or
(2) looking for creative solutions for how WE can help positively transform the situation.
One option greatly limits our joy, spikes our stress, and closes our hearts, but the other option opens up pathways for unlimited possibilities ~ which is way more fun and where I love to live!
(Lovebug agrees that there are much more productive uses of our energy than spending any of it on blaming others!